Do not worry about those who judge you harshly for your past actions or inactions. They are not where you are in your journey of forgiveness.
If they truly understood, they would realize that:
• By not forgiving, they rob themselves of living life to the fullest.
• By not forgiving, they contribute to perpetuating misery in their own lives and the lives of those they care about.
• By not forgiving, they cultivate an unhealthy mindset that takes a toll on their mental and physical well-being.
Holding grudges and refusing to forgive is not worth the damage it does to your own well-being. It's also not worth the misery it causes among the people you care about.
Eventually, some of the members in their circle may grow tired of the toxicity and free themselves.
Meanwhile, continue living your life to the fullest. Remain the loving, caring, and forgiving person you are. Pray, replace negative thoughts with positive ones, and focus on what you want in life, not what you don't. For what we focus on is what grows.
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