Sunday, February 25, 2024

Not All Influencers Provide Complete Advice

I often hear people say we should only take advice from people who are where we want to be. But, I have learned that there are influencers who give advice but leave out crucial information about how they got to where they wanted to be. I asked AI what is the best way to convey this message. And this is how AI responded:

The best way to convey the message that not all influencers provide complete advice is through open and honest communication. Here are a few strategies you can adopt:

1. Encourage critical thinking: Encourage individuals to think critically when consuming advice or information. Remind them that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to success, and it is essential to consider multiple perspectives.

2. Promote diverse sources of information: Emphasize the importance of seeking a range of sources to form a well-rounded understanding. Encourage people to follow diverse influencers who openly discuss the challenges and failures faced during their journey.

3. Highlight the importance of transparency: Discuss the significance of transparency in providing advice. Encourage influencers to share their complete stories, including the struggles, setbacks, and lessons learned, so that others can make more informed decisions.

4. Promote personal stories of success: Share stories of individuals who have achieved their goals, highlighting the challenges they faced along the way. By showcasing real, relatable experiences, you can demonstrate that the path to success often involves ups and downs.

5. Encourage seeking advice from different perspectives: Encourage individuals to seek advice from a variety of sources, including mentors, experts, and peers. This broadens the scope of information and provides a more holistic understanding.

6. Foster conversations and dialogue: Create spaces where individuals can openly discuss their experiences, questions, and concerns. By fostering an environment that encourages dialogue, people can share knowledge, challenge assumptions, and learn from one another's experiences.

Remember, the goal is to promote critical thinking, transparency, and a comprehensive approach to advice-seeking. By emphasizing these principles, you help others make informed decisions and avoid blindly following incomplete advice.

Wednesday, February 21, 2024

Shortest Story I've Ever Written by ac mccants


Shortest Story I've Ever Written
by ac mccants
"For Sale: toilet, never used."

My Five-Word Story

So...
WHAT IS A FIVE-WORD STORY? 
by ac and AI 
A five-word story is a form of flash fiction or microfiction that consists of telling a complete story within the constraint of only five words.

Despite the brevity, a well-crafted five-word story can convey depth, emotion, or a thought-provoking idea, leaving the reader to fill in the gaps and interpret the meaning.

Ernest Hemingway is often associated with the "Six-Word Story" due to a famous anecdote, although the story's precise origin is disputed. 

The story goes that someone challenged Hemingway to write a compelling narrative using only six words. Hemingway responded with: "For sale: baby shoes, never worn."

This brief anecdote has become legendary and is often cited as an example of the power of brevity and implication in storytelling.
 
While the authenticity of this particular story's origin remains unverified, it serves as a testament to Hemingway's mastery of concise and impactful writing.

The six-word story attributed to Hemingway captivates the reader's imagination, raising questions and evoking emotions around loss, tragedy, and the untold story behind those unused baby shoes. It illustrates the power of suggesting more than what is explicitly stated, inviting interpretation and emotional resonance.

•By starting my five-word story with the first two words of the famous six-word story, made it easier for me to create a concise five-word story. 

Actually, I came up with several five-word stories. However...
 
"For Sale: toilet, never used"

was my favorite.

•Feel free to share your five-word story in the comments.

Wednesday, January 31, 2024

A POEM BY AC AND AI _ You Cannot Make People Like You, Nor Should You Try

In a world where opinions clash and collide,
One truth remains, impossible to hide:

True acceptance brings a love that imparts,
A sense of belonging, healing the heart.

Seek not validation in others' sight,
But radiate your true colors, shining bright.

Like vibrant hues in nature's tapestry,
Be your unique self, unapologetically.

For those who resonate with your soul's true song,

Will naturally gravitate where they belong.

Remember this golden decree,
Embrace your individuality.

For in self-acceptance, magic can ignite,
And attract those who will cherish your light.

So, let go of the need for universal praise,
Find solace in the rhythm your own heart plays.

Love yourself and hold your truth dear,
And watch as genuine connections draw near.

ONE REAL FRIEND

ONE REAL FRIEND
A Poem By ac and AI
One real friend 
is better than a dozen fake

They hold a bond
no counterfeit can break

While a dozen may swarm 
seeking to deceive

A real friend stays warm 
hoping you succeed

Saturday, January 20, 2024

The Mistake on the Happy Birthday Barbie Girl Video

I made a mistake on my "Happy Birthday Barbie Girl" video, and I cannot take it back.

Of course, this bothered me because I tend to have perfectionist issues which I really need to nip in the bud, but that's another story.

Here's the story that explains why I made the video and the mistake I made.

Okay, starting with why I made the video:

I was checking out my cousin Nancy's Instagram Story the day before her birthday and saw that she and some friends had attended a Barbie-themed party. That's where I got the idea for the "Happy Birthday Barbie Girl" video.

Now, let me tell you about the mistake I made:

Due to my tendency to overthink things, I went back and forth about which images to use and where to place them. Then, before I knew it, time was running out, and I only had two hours left (Eastern Time) to present Nancy (and the rest of the world) with my cute and clever "Happy Birthday Barbie Girl."

I proceeded to post the video to YouTube Shorts, Instagram Feed, Instagram Stories, Facebook Stories, and TikTok. However, the next day, I noticed my mistake. I somehow overlooked the awkwardly overlapped group of AI Barbie Girls in the right hand bottom corner, causing it to look like the mistake that it was.

I know Nancy is alright with this, and she probably didn't even notice, but I did. And now, I have to deal with it not being perfect. Just kidding y'all, I'm fine. 

Now you know the whole story, a dilemma I dare not take back. Correcting and reposting, I simply will not do that. 

Hope you enjoyed my story☺️

Note: The following is the YouTube Shorts link for the video "Happy Birthday Barbie Girl":

https://youtube.com/shorts/Mv9tWcoVaq4?si=Xatb25qeX0iPbXqx

Monday, January 8, 2024

Book Review for The Island Tournament: Grantors of VarenniCon by Travis Martin

An Enchanting Tale of Sacrifice and Destiny -
Enter a World of Magic and Courage 
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
The heart of this story lies in the journey of our protagonist, Nabil, a young man driven by a single purpose - to secure the treatment his ailing mother desperately needs. As Nabil embarks on his quest to win the Island Tournament, a thrilling five-round magical battle, readers are drawn into a world brimming with power, intrigue, and unexpected twists.

The magical battles are exhilarating and keep the adrenaline pumping. The author's ability to balance action and character development is commendable, ensuring that every victory and defeat resonates deeply.

As I absorbed each chapter, hoping for Nabil's success in the tournament, I couldn't help but empathize with his heartfelt desire to help his mother. Even with the passage of time dimming my memory of specific details, the emotional impact and the urgency of Nabil's mission have stayed with me. The undefined sense of foreboding surrounding the tournament's outcome only fueled my passion for the sequel, leaving me with a craving for more of this enthralling world.

If you are in search of a magical read that challenges conventions and leaves you eagerly awaiting the next installment, then The Island Tournament is a must-read. Travis Martin proves himself a master of storytelling, effortlessly blending action, intrigue, and emotional depth into a tale that will resonate within your heart long after the final page.

Highly recommended for fans of fantasy, The Island Tournament is an enchanting journey that you won't want to miss.

I give it a five-star rating.

Monday, December 4, 2023

The Silent G

Click or copy and paste the following link to watch video of The Silent G. Length: 59 seconds...

https://youtube.com/shorts/cZQPFjgz5gY?si=jHWek31C1DlOSCPE

The Silent G
Speaks so silently
It plays the part
It's a work of art
 
A mystery
But, there for all to see
In many words
Being quiet as can be

The Silent G
Just like the blue sea
It can be deep
In words like sovereignty 

The silent g
The silent g
The silent g
Shhh... 
The Silent G
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         THE PLIGHT OF THE KNIGHTS
                      and The Silent G's

Now listen to the tale of THE PLIGHT OF THE KNIGHTS... In the middle of the night, as the moon shone bright, the knights tried to fight with all their might. But some took flight in fear and fright. 

Some pressed on until daylight.
To the left, to the right was a terrible sight.
The dragon came and they all took PLIGHT. I may be wrong. I may be right. Was that a tale? Well, maybe slight. I wish for all be merry and bright.
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Sunday, October 8, 2023

Chicks At The Beauty Salon

CHICKS AT THE BEAUTY SALON 
          by ac mccants 
Chicks on a private beach
Chicks on a giant peach
Chicks standing in the hall
Chicks in the shopping mall
Chicks on the movie screen
Chicks in a magazine
Chicks on the runway
Chicks in a stage play
Chicks in a bookstore
Chicks on the dance floor
Chicks on a game show
Chicks in a studio
Chicks at a poetry reading
Chicks at a town meeting
Chicks in a wedding
Chicks going sledding
Chicks at a fitness gym
Chicks at the art museum
Chicks on a beautiful lawn
Chicks at the beauty salon

Behind The Story: Chicks At The Beauty Salon

Once upon a time, Carla received a gift of a whimsical painting that depicted a carefree chicken in a snazzy black hat and a flapper dress. The painting was done by a local artist named Ernest Lee, aka "The Chicken Man."

A few years later, Carla casually mentioned to her sister Anita that she someday would like to have "The Chicken Man" depict four chickens sitting under hair dryers in a beauty salon. 

Carla's bright idea was to symbolize the four sisters, (Selina, Zelbra, Anita and Carla) through the metaphorical representation of the four chickens. One can only hope they would not squawk about it later!

Anita, feeling inspired by Carla's whimsical vision, decided to dabble with drawing a cartoon chicken under a hair dryer.

A few days later, Anita digitally duplicated her chicken in a range of chicken colors. She wanted to make sure those four chickens were distinct, like a chicken rainbow. No offense to her sisters, of course!

After three years of Anita's on-and-off chicken animations, she finally presented Carla with her four chickens in a beauty salon. But alas, it wasn't exactly what Carla had envisioned. Anita had to tweak the color of the hair dryers and reorganize the layout from horizontal to vertical to square with different color backgrounds.

However, despite Anita's revisions, the project once again found its way to the back burner. 

Then one day, after three more years passed, as Anita was watching a YouTube video by the famous Sean Cannell, who was suggesting creators should consider making content for children—a brilliant idea hatched in her mind—a picture book titled "Chicks At The Beauty Salon."

Now, this wasn't necessarily a children's book, but it was kid-friendly and rhymed. Words flowed from Anita's pen, but the struggle lay in creating the actual illustrations. Even with the help of artificial intelligence, it seemed to take ages.

But at long last, Anita completed her project that she was finally satisfied with. 

Anita, also known as A.C. McCants, plans to hire a cartoonish artist to create another version of her picture book, appropriately titled "Chicks At The Beauty Salon: The Cartoon Edition."

Meanwhile, Carla still holds on to her quest to contact "The Chicken Man" for a painting of four chickens sitting under the hair dryers in a beauty salon. These paintings, she planned, would be a quirky addition to their mom, Mary Ann and sister, Zelbra's beauty salon.
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Click or copy and paste the following link to check out the picture book Chicks At The Beauty Salon:

http://acmccants.blogspot.com/2023/10/chicks-at-beauty-salon.html

Saturday, June 10, 2023

82-Year-Old Business Owner Passionately Working With Hair Since Age Thirteen

When Mary Ann was thirteen, her father asked a friend to let her work at his wife's beauty shop. 

She spent her weekends washing combs and taking out rollers from the customers' hair.

She fell in love with the idea of doing hair for a living.

After finishing high school, she moved an hour away from her hometown Clinton, South Carolina, to Columbia to attend beauty school.

At the start of her career, she worked in a beauty salon that had a mostly white clientele. She often came to the rescue when a hair color mishap occurred,

She was particularly good at color-mixing for the desired results.

Shortly after her daughter, Zelbra, graduated from beauty school and became a licensed cosmetologist, Mary Ann ventured out and launched her own business, M&Z StyleMakers, where the mother-daughter duo are partners in this business.

Today, June 10, 2023, Mary Ann (Rice) Cullum celebrates her 82nd birthday and 64 years of dedicated service in cosmetology.

Monday, May 22, 2023

High Up In The Sky:The Story Behind The Song

        
     High Up In The Sky is a paragraph long
       And one of the lines is grammatically
                               wrong
          Which is the case with many a song
                              However...
                        It is a true story
                    And the flow is strong
                So, what is it about this song? 

While watching a video of someone's simulated plane flying experience, I was reminded of my dreams where I soar high above the clouds. 

In my dreams, I am either in awe of being free in the air or relieved to escape difficult situations.

The music playing in the video sparked inspiration in me, and I began crafting a song with ease. "High Up In The Sky" was the title of my creation.

Months later, my son presented me with music he composed for a song I had written when he and his sister were small children. 

While listening to it, I could hear the melody of "High Up In The Sky" woven within. 

My son's original music brought my song to life.

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

AC McCants conceptualized The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book for the purpose of igniting ideas for a vision board project for The Blind and The Visually Impaired.
The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book are perceived by touch.

McCants writes short stories, song lyrics, ideas and more to enrich the lives of others.


Saturday, May 20, 2023

Most UnLikely To Be Queen

From the time she was in middle school,
she had anticipated being queen of her high school.

It all started the summer she turned twelve.
She had been visiting her grandparents for the school break.

One afternoon, she heard a song on the radio that stirred her emotions. It reminded her
of how she had been sneered at through the years by some of her peers as well as some adults.

She silently vowed...
"I'm going to sing this in my high school pageant and it's going to move everyone to tears and I'm going to be the school’s queen."

By mid-September, in her first semester
of her senior year in high school, her homeroom teacher, Mr. Dufford, announced "It is time for the annual Miss Shamrock Pageant."

He wrote the names on the board of the students who wanted to participate in the pageant.

Then he commanded everyone to put their heads down and raise their hands to vote.

"Oh no! No one likes me. How am I going to be able to run for Miss Shamrock?"

The process to become a contestant never occurred to Nita until now.

A guy blurted...
"Y'all, let’s vote for Nita. That would be a trip to see her walking on stage.”

They laughed and snickered but it did not bother her. She hoped they would do just that. Vote for Nita.

"If they vote for me, I got it from here."

When Nita got home and told her mom she was going to be a contestant in the school’s pageant, her mom bought her the album that included the song she wanted to sing.

A week later, Nita's mom bought the music sheet and made an appointment for her to rehearse with a music teacher who played piano.

Nita's friend, Melissa Jones, loaned Nita her blue chiffon gown for the evening wear segment of the competition.

A friend of the family, Lorraine Hancock loaned Nita her gray tweed skirt and jacket for the business wear segment of the competition.

The typing teacher, Ms. Vivian Greene (who was also the head of the modeling club) taught Nita how to walk in the pageant.

The pageant organizer, Ms. Patricia Gold (who was also a gym teacher and athletic coach) set up a meet-and-greet with the judges who candidly spoke with the contestants in the school’s library the day before the pageant.

On the night of the pageant, as the contestants awaited their turn to grace the stage, their faces beamed with happiness.

When the time had come for Nita to sing her rendition of "At Seventeen" by Janis Ian, she took to the stage and poured her heart into the song, while Ms. Carolyn Cleveland grandly played the piano.

Nita's eyes were teary, but she dared not cry to keep her voice from breaking. She wanted the audience to hear every word of the song that resonated with her.

The audience was moved to tears.

A junior named Nicki Boyd met Nita backstage in the petitioned hallway.

As the tears streamed down her face, she exclaimed, "Nita, that song was so beautiful, but you're not ugly."

"Aww Nicki, don't cry. I'm fine."

The two hugged, then Nicki walked away.

Nita's mom returned to where the contestants prepped and waited.

"Nita, when you were up there singing, the audience got so quiet, you could hear people sniffling."

Nita's eyes stretched as she murmured "Wow."

That night, Nita won Grand Talent.
And... Miss Shamrock.

The crowd cheered as she took her walk down the ramp with a crown on her head and a bouquet of carnations and the Grand Talent trophy in her arms.

The jazz ensemble band played their instrumental version of "One in a Million You" by Graham Central Station and Larry Graham.

It was the music Nita had hoped to hear for that special moment.

As she took her seat on the stage to have her picture taken with the class queens, a crowd rushed to congratulate her.

A girl (who had graduated a year earlier) hugged Nita with a firm grip around her neck as she uttered "I KNEW YOU WERE GONNA WIN (WITCH)." It was actually the B word, but anyway...

The next day, some of Nita's peers greeted her with praise, and others with criticism.

"DID YOU HAVE TO BE GREEDY AND TAKE TWO TROPHIES?" a guy yelled as he passed her in the hall.

"I DIDN'T PICK MYSELF" she yelled back.

A girl who sat in the back of her vocabulary class smirked "How did Nita win? She doesn't even have the looks."

Another girl pranced her way to the front to relay what was said and who said it. Then went on to say "What do you have to say to that?"

"I don't care," Nita replied, then drifted back to daydreaming about being a famous singer. Then, on second thought, a writer.

Nita's desire to enrich the lives of others made the idea of writing a splendid way for her to do so.

Her writings are designed to inspire and enlighten.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
AC McCants (aka Anita Cullum McCants) created The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book Project for the purpose of igniting ideas for a vision board project for The Blind and The Visually Impaired.

The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book are perceived by touch. 
McCants writes short stories, song lyrics, ideas, and more to enrich the lives of others.

To check out stories, songs & more by ac mccants, visit...

https://linktr.ee/acmccants


Tuesday, May 16, 2023

With Only a 3rd Grade Education

My grandfather was born in South Carolina in 1913. He had to drop out of school in the third grade and work in the fields to help his family. 

In those days in the South, black children were usually pulled out of school by fourth grade to limit their education. 

As an adolescent, my grandfather and his brothers decided to head up north for work. However, shortly after, my grandfather returned to the South. 

As a young married man with a family, he worked various jobs, including self-employed services. 

He owned a wood and coal yard, as well as an ice house. 

By the mid-1960s, my grandfather decided to start a business under his namesake - John T. Rice and Sons Garbage Collection Service.

He and my uncle Charles were partners in this successful business, which employed others to help with their routes. 

Despite his limited education and improper grammar, my grandfather did not let anything get in the way of turning his dreams into reality. 
In this photo is my grandfather (John Thomas Rice, Sr) with his sons, my uncle Tommy with his daughter Tara and my uncle Charles (my grandfather's business partner) posing in front of one of their garbage trucks.

I hope my grandfather's story inspires others to believe in themselves and pursue their dreams. 

About the Author: 
AC McCants created The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book Project to ignite ideas for a vision board project for the blind and visually impaired. 
McCants writes short stories, song lyrics, and more to enrich the lives of others.

Friday, May 12, 2023

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO CUT UP MAGAZINES TO CREATE A VISION BOARD

A Vision Board is a collage of images and words representing your dreams and goals.

It serves as a reminder for you to stay focused on what you want in life.

DO NOT CLUTTER YOUR VISION BOARD
A cluttered vision board makes it harder for you to focus on your goals consciously and subconsciously.

You do not have to cut up magazines to create a vision board.

Your vision board can consist of drawn or printed words or images. Or... words and images. Or... tactile pre-cut shapes or braille.

You could print your digital images and tape them to a poster board along with your hand drawn images.

You could post tactile images on a magnetic board with magnetic strips to secure them.

Post your vision board where you would come in contact with it on a regular basis.

You could take a picture of your vision board and save it in your phone or computer. Or tape it inside your notebook.

For what you want to remain private, label it private. Just remember what it is.

Before Making a Vision Board...
make a list of:
*What you want to Do
*What you want to Have
*What you want to Give
and...
*How you want your life to Be.

Your vision board could represent a variety of things you want in your life. Or... it could be of a specific goal or event.

You do not have to know how everything is going to fall in place. Just be clear about what you truly desire.

When you are clear about what you want in life, ideas and opportunities come to you to help make your dreams come true.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

AC McCants conceptualized The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book Project for the purpose of igniting ideas for 
a vision board project for The Blind and The Visually Impaired.
The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book are perceived by touch.

McCants writes short stories, song lyrics, ideas and more to enrich the lives of others

The Tactile Vision Board: A Vision Board for The Blind and The Visually Impaired

The Tactile Vision Board and the Tactile Vision Book Project was created to ignite ideas for a vision board project for The Blind and The Visually Impaired.

The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book are perceived by touch.

The images for the Tactile Vision Board can be posted on a magnetic board or a poster board and can be secured with adhesive strips or adhesive magnetic strips.

The images for the Tactile Vision Book can be posted in a book with cardstock, poster board or plastic pages. And secured with adhesive strips.

The images for the Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book could come from pre-cut shapes from wood or cardboard or plastic.  

The shapes could be a car, a house, a guitar and so forth. Raised words or braille text could also be used.

WHAT IS A VISION BOARD?

A Vision Board is a collage of images and words representing your dreams and goals.
It serves as a reminder for you to stay focused on what you want in life.

DO NOT CLUTTER YOUR VISION BOARD
A cluttered vision board makes it harder for you to focus on your goals consciously and subconsciously.

You could post your vision board or vision book where you would come in contact with it on a regular basis.

For what you want to remain private, label it private. Just remember what it is.

Before Making a Vision Board or a Vision Book,
create a list of:
*What you want to Do
*What you want to Have
•What you want to Give  
and...
*How you want your life to Be

You do not have to know how everything is going to fall into place. Just be clear about what you truly desire.

When you are clear about what you want in life, ideas and opportunities come to you to help make your dreams come true.

THE STORY BEHIND THE VISION BOARD for THE BLIND

A.C. McCants was inspired to create a vision board for the blind because of her admiration for Jeanette Cade, who was a real estate broker that some believed to be completely blind.

One evening, during a discussion about careers, Cade realized McCants enjoyed designing posters to help others attract attendees to their events. 

Cade suggested McCants go to school for graphic designing. She wanted McCants to have a career in doing something she enjoyed doing.

A few weeks later, Jeanette Cade passed away.

When McCants looked at her vision board again, the idea of a vision board for the blind came to mind. She researched names for raised words and images and found the word TACTILE.

The word TACTILE was the perfect word for McCants to use in her title for her vision board project for the blind. She called her project The Tactile Vision Board.

Throughout the years, McCants would revise her Tactile Vision Board Project.

One day, McCants came across an article: The Tactile Picture Books Project by Tom Yeh. That particular article gave McCants the idea to create The Tactile Vision Book for The Blind and The Visually Impaired.

Again and again, McCants continued to revise her Tactile Vision Board and Tactile Vision Book Project until one day she discovered an article online: Can You Create a Vision Board with No Vision? This article was written by Empish J. Thomas, who is blind. 

With the help of a friend, Thomas created a tactual vision board to help her accomplish a specific goal.

McCants finally decided it was time to stop revising her Vision Board Project for The Blind and post it online along with helpful tips for creating one.

A Short Story and Poem by ac mccants…

THE BLIND LADY WANTED ME TO DESIGN
 THE DEAF LADY WANTED ME TO SING

Jeanette Cade 
was a real estate broker 
Whom some believed to be 
completely blind
It was hard for me to tell
She seemed to be looking at me 
from time to time
I gave her a poster I created
To help promote her company
She held my design upside down
Yet her compliment, I did BELIEVE

One day she said to me
For graphic designing
You should go to school 
Designing is something 
It seems you love to do

I was looking to help her
But she actually helped me
Gone But Not Forgotten 
As She Rest in Peace

Somewhere in time, some of my co-workers and I formed a band so we could perform at our outdoor event.

It was a thrill for me to be on stage singing background as well as solo.

When we were done performing, one of the ladies (from the company) came up to me and said "Child you miss yo callin'." 

Later that day or maybe the next, a lady named Shirley (from a department I once worked in) passed me a letter she had written on scrap paper.
 
Shirley could not hear me because she was deaf. When I read her letter I could tell she believed it was my destiny to be a performing artist. And a part of me believed it as well.

I always thought about Shirley’s letter, and hoped someday we would reconnect.

Shirley could not hear me
But believed performing was my destiny

I can’t remember her last name
But I think about her just the same

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

A.C. McCants writes short stories, song lyrics, ideas and more to enrich the lives of others.

McCants created The Tactile Vision Board and The Tactile Vision Book Project for the purpose of igniting ideas for a vision board project for The Blind and The Visually Impaired.

Tuesday, June 14, 2022

81 Year Old Doing What She Loves Since Age Thirteen

When Mary Ann was eleven years old, she and her brothers worked in their father's wood and coal business stacking wood and bagging coal. 

When she was thirteen, her father asked a man he knew, if she could work in his wife's beauty shop. 

On weekends, Mary Ann washed combs and brushes and took rollers out the customers' hair. 

She fell in love with the idea of doing hair for a living. 

When she graduated high-school she moved an hour away from home to live with her Aunt Mae so she could attend beauty school. 

Cosmetology was not offered in high-school when she was coming along. 

Mary Ann must have paid close attention 
to mixing color because she was like a chemist when it came to getting the results she was looking for. 

At the start of her career she worked in a salon where she found herself coming to the rescue when a client's hair color ended up being a color they did not ask for. 

Over the years she worked at several beauty salons,  building a strong clientele. 

Eventually, she branched out and started her own business when her daughter, Zelbra, graduated beauty school and got her cosmetology license. 

Mary Ann (Rice) Cullum turned 81 on June 10th, 2022. 

She is the owner of M&Z StyleMakers where she and her daughter, Zelbra, are partners in this business. 

Mary Ann has four daughters (Selina, Zelbra, Anita and Carla) and five grandchildren (Brenda, Christina, Philip, Tony and Pierce) who are all very happy with her success in doing what she loves for a living. 

And on that note,  this super short story ends with a quote by a.c. mccants... 

"Whether or not you are doing what you love for a living,  make time on a regular basis and do what you enjoy. That itself is a gratifying experience."

Monday, March 7, 2022

SHORT STORY: Not All Kids Are Resilient

"Be strong for your momma." I uttered those words to my much younger cousin Nancy who was only eight when she lost her dad to lightning.

At that time I was not aware of how remarks like that could impact a child.  I was not aware until several years after my children lost their dad to stomach cancer.

It was the beginning of our daughter's second week as a high school freshman at a new school, a public school (with classmates she had not previously attended school with) and our son's first day of fifth grade at the same private school he had been attending since the age of three.

In both schools there were teachers who were compassionate and understanding.
There were also a few disconnected teachers who were quick to remind me my kids were not going through anything, and that whole nonsense about kids are resilient as if all kids just bounce right back after experiencing death of a parent or guardian.

Although the kids and I had a bereavement coordinator who counseled us on a monthly basis for almost a year after their dad passed away, it wasn't until several years later when I discovered some well-meaning adults had privately told them to be strong for me.

My kids had been instantly given a responsibility they did not need to be burden with.

So there it was several years later when my daughter had gone off to college and my son was attending a public high school, I discovered their poems and writings and learned there were times when they were sad from missing their dad, but kept it from me because they were told to be strong for me.

After the kids became young adults and done with college they made me aware that many nights throughout the years after losing their father it was hard for them to fall asleep because the house was too quite and they had been used to falling asleep to the sounds from the TV playing in the front room.

They knew they could talk to me about anything. But matters stemming from their father's death, they kept from me for the sake of being strong for me.

If only I had known, I could have assured them they did not have to be strong for me.

I could have been there for them doing whatever I could to comfort them.

Monday, June 14, 2021

POEM: PROOF GOD IS REAL



God gave us science
to connect the dots
and understand

God also gave us 
mysteries that not even
scientist can comprehend

Jesus performed  miracles 
which no one debated 
back then

After He died on the cross,
more than five hundred saw
Him alive again

Yes God Is Real
I Rest My Case
The End